When life at home gets crazy, a girls’ getaway is the cure! And what’s better than a cruise, where all the planning, cooking and cleaning is done for you?
My husband knows this and sent me on a fabulous girls’ getaway cruise with a dear friend. You know the kind of friend who you can spill your guts to uncensored, knowing you’ll be loved 100% no matter what you say?
She had a really tough year, too, and her hubby is awesome like mine. So, he agreed to our getaway and a cruise for two was planned and booked in record time!
We chose Royal Caribbean’s Enchantment of the Seas 4 night cruise to the Bahamas. The departure port, Port Canaveral (Orlando) is a one-day drive from home, so cost effective. And four nights allowed us enough time to truly unwind — any shorter and we definitely wouldn’t have been ready to go home! But, it was long enough to miss the hubby and kids, at least a little bit.
Why Enchantment of the Seas
Enchantment of the Seas was a great choice for our cruise. The ship is large enough to have plenty to do, but not so huge we couldn’t do it all! We challenged our trivia skills, ate to our hearts’ content, relaxed pool side, danced till we couldn’t dance anymore, and so much more. Of course, in real girls’ getaway fashion, we talked, laughed, cried and laughed even more!
The cruise took us to two ports: Nassau, The Bahamas and CocoCay, Royal Caribbean’s private island. Both days greeted us with perfect sunshine, temperatures in the low 80s and calm seas.
In Nassau, we lounged the day away at the Hilton British Colonial Resort, which is located near the port. That port stop happened to be the perfect place to celebrate my friend’s birthday with cake — served by the singing chef!
At the private island, we found lounge chairs near the shore and relaxed to the sound of gentle waves lapping on the shore. We brought inflatable pool noodles to float in the calm waters. We drank fruity concoctions out of adorable pails. And, we enjoyed snorkeling in the shallow waters — so cool to see sting rays, nurse sharks and other sea creatures up close!
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I am not sure when I’ll get to go again, but I look forward to experiencing Royal Caribbean’s all-new Perfect Day at CocoCay! The water park alone looks like so much fun — and I don’t mean just for kids! And, I’ve long wanted to go “zorbing” — not sure if I’ll chicken out, but I sure hope to give it a try in the next year or two!
Driving home after the cruise, we knew this would not be the last girlfriend cruise we took together!
How to plan the best girls’ getaways
Short cruises, like our 4 day cruise from Florida, are ideal for girlfriend getaways. The planning is largely done for you since dining, lodging and the majority of entertainment are included. It’s almost an all-inclusive getaway for girlfriends! At the same time, those who want to shop or drink can easily do so.
Tips for planning the best girlfriend cruise getaway
- Select a cruise port that’s in easy driving distance to keep costs down. We chose Port Canaveral, about 10 hours from home, and booked a hotel the night before the cruise to keep the stress down. If you live on the west coast, consider 3 days cruises from San Francisco or 4 day cruises from Long Beach. Not flying, we kept costs down (which means we will probably go again sooner rather than later).
- Look for cheap weekend cruise and weekend cruise deals online to save. Last minute cruises, especially in the shoulder season, are a great way to save on a getaway.
- In the alternative, if someone in the group has cruised before, have them book the cruise. Included perks, like cabin upgrades and expedited check in, are great budget stretchers.
- Make sure each member of the group attaches their own credit card to their cruise account. I know someone who cruised with girlfriends, and one of them constantly “forgot” her key. She bummed free drinks off of the other people in the group and didn’t pay her gratuities. It’s one thing if you have a group member who can’t afford to travel and others want to chip in. It’s entirely NOT COOL to be a freeloader when you don’t need to be!
- Share all the costs of travel. My friend has a really comfortable SUV and loves to drive. So, I paid half our gas costs, half the hotel and bought dinner on the drive down. Just because someone offers to drive doesn’t mean they should get stuck with the fuel costs!
- Choose a cruise long enough to relax. This is important, whether you’re planning a girls cruise or couples’ escape. Short cruises are cheap, but they’re over before you get a chance to catch your breath. When you book 4 day cruises, it allows enough time to turn off the brain and reset. Beyond that, it also lets everyone get a chance to do something they really want to do.
- Don’t think you have to be together all the time. No matter how close you are, you and your friends might not all want to do the same things. I love challenging myself on the rock wall. My friend did not share my enthusiasm. So, on a sea day, she took a much desired afternoon nap (her youngest is only two), and I hit the rock wall. Literally, but that’s a story for another day!
- Plan shore excursions with everyone’s interests in mind. I’m adventurous. I’ve been to Nassau many times and am very comfortable exploring the island on my own. My friend is more cautious. We took that into account and planned a shore excursion that met both our needs. It’s the art of compromise, so I recommend each person share what they like to do and how much they are willing to spend. Don’t book the $300 high adventure excursion if someone in the group is not comfortable with the activity or the price. But…
- If traveling in a large group, like a bachelorette cruise or a reunion cruise, choose a couple of shore excursions and let people pick which one they want to do. It’s okay not to be together 100% of the time!
Book your girlfriend getaway cruise with these handy links!
Ready to book that getaway cruise? Here are links to each cruise line to make it easy!
- Carnival Cruise Line Getaways — the best value at sea.
- Celebrity Cruise Lines — modern luxury, fewer kids.
- Disney Cruise Line — for the princess in all of us.
- Norwegian Cruise Line — relaxed cruising and great shows.
- Royal Caribbean — for the adventurer in us all.
What if a cruise won’t work for everyone
Cruises are one of the best girls getaways because of how easy they are to plan. But, not everyone wants to cruise. All-inclusive resorts are another easy option, but they can be pricey, so consider whether everyone in the group can afford an all-inclusive. The same tips apply, though.
Beyond short cruises and all-inclusives, any place can be a great getaway for friends. Here are some of my favorites:
- St. Simon’s Island, Georgia,
- Charlottesville, Virginia,
- Hocking Hills Area, Ohio,
- Annapolis, Maryland,
- Savannah, Georgia.
What’s your favorite girls’ getaway destination? Leave a comment below!
Dana says
Looooved this cruise and my crusing buddy!!! Such a good time!
Karen Dawkins says
Time to go again! Yes?
Katrina Ellen says
A cruise has always been on my list of things to be able to do. I bet just going with your girls would make it even that much more fun!
Shannon Gurnee says
I’ve never been on a Royal Caribbean Cruise before, but my husband and I love to cruise. We’ve been on Carnival Cruises and Norwegian Cruises.
Erica ~ Erica Ever After says
I never knew a weekend cruise was even thing… my BFF and I really need to go on one
Rachel says
My friends and I are hoping to get to go on a friend’s cruise! These look so fun.
Shannan P says
It looks like you had a blast! I have traveled with my BFF before, but never on a cruise. I think we need to remedy that situation!
Lynndee says
Never been on a cruise, but I think it would be a fun getaway to experience with your girlfriends. Well, it’s always fun anywhere we go when I’m with the girls. 🙂
Kathy says
I would love to go on a cruise. I’ve never been on one before. I think this really would be a wonderful idea to have a getaway with the girls.
Melissa Dixon says
My friend and I have talked about getting together to do something but we haven’t yet. We haven’t actually got to hang out for fun since we were kids. We are both bloggers so you would think an opportunity would arise but it hasn’t just yet. This makes me really want to plan something.
Ruth I says
Oh wow! I’d love to do this with my friends! I am sure it was amazing with all the view and experience!
Marysa says
This definitely sounds like a lot of fun for a girls getaway! I want to go on a cruise with my family, too. We wanted to go when the kids were little but now sounds like a great time to go too.
Karen Dawkins says
We had a blast cruising with our kids as teens (and as little kids). They really enjoyed cruising as teens because they had freedom to explore the ship without parents. I have a post on that if you want more info.
1stopmom says
I have always wanted to go on a cruise. These are some great tips I will keep in mind. I had no idea that there were shorter cruises. I will definitely be looking into that.
Karen Dawkins says
Four days is a great length for a getaway!
Brianne Tursi Manz says
I think a weekend cruise with my girl friends would be a great time! I like what you said in considering other people in the party, as not everyone would like to do that, or finances might be an issue.
Karen Dawkins says
I went with one friend on this cruise. Our first conversation was budget. It’s not fun if one person is worried about the expenses! She and I are planning to go again next year.