• About
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact

Family Travels on a Budget

Travel with kids: theme park family deals, cruise ships for kids and best cruise lines for teens and other cool places to visit, including adult getaways

  • Home
  • Travel guides
  • Cruising
  • Destinations
    • USA
      • Alabama
      • Florida
      • Georgia
      • Illinois
      • Indiana
      • Louisiana
      • Maryland
      • New York
      • North Carolina
      • Ohio
      • Oklahoma
      • Oregon
      • Pennsylvania
      • South Carolina
      • Texas
      • Utah
      • Virginia
      • Washington, DC
    • World
      • Bahamas/Caribbean
      • Canada
      • China
      • France
      • Mexico
      • Spain
  • Interests
    • Adventure
    • Arts/Culture
    • Beaches
    • Fitness
    • Food
    • Girlfriend Getaways
    • History
    • Kid Fun
    • Romantic Escapes
    • Teens and Tweens
    • Theme Parks and Zoos
      • Disney
      • Universal Studios
      • Other Theme Parks
      • Zoos
  • Reviews
    • Hotels
    • Restaurants
    • Products
    • Tech
    • Books
  • Travel Tips
    • Air Travel
    • Budget
    • Packing
    • Planning
    • Roadtrips
  • At home
    • Recipes
    • Shopping
    • Staycations

Home » planning » Family vacation planning as easy as ABC!

Family vacation planning as easy as ABC!

October 22, 2015 by Karen Dawkins 3 Comments

As an Amazon affiliate, and affiliate with other businesses, I earn from qualifying purchases.

Pin
Share
Tweet

Family Vacation Planning is as easy as ABC! Just 3 steps to family harmony and a lifetime of incredible memories!

Does taking a road trip with your kids sound more painful than a root canal at the dentist? This article is for you! Even if you enjoy road trips with the family, I think these ABCs of family vacation planning will make your trips even more fabulous! It took me 20 years of traveling with kids to perfect this formula, and it works!

Ready for the family vacation planning ABCs?

A = Appreciate their temperament. Every kid has a different temperament, right? Imagine a go-go-go family vacation with no unstructured downtime for an introvert. Oh my goodness — that’s a nightmare trip for them. (And I think it’s a major reason kids have meltdowns midday.)

Save up to $88 on SeaWorld Orlando Resort Tickets!

Ben is my introvert and I’m an extrovert, so 16 solid days of togetherness this summer could have been a disaster. I reminded myself throughout the trip to allow quiet time. When we had breaks in the schedule, I’d leave him to watch ESPN, check Ohio State Football videos on his phone or read a book. I’d busy myself reorganizing the luggage, checking work emails, and other not so exciting things to keep myself from intruding on his downtime.

In 16 days, we had one ultra-mini-five-minute spat. I quickly realized that we hadn’t eaten lunch and he was running on fumes. We stopped for lunch — selecting a quiet booth in the corner — and ate. Quietly. Slowly. He needed food and a break to recharge his batteries. It worked!

B = Be flexible. Unexpected moments in travel might just lead to the greatest memories. On a “detour” to Casey to see the world’s largest wind chime, we met the friendliest townspeople. Ben and I still smile as we remember the friendly people we met there.

In Rockford, Illinois, we met Frank during breakfast where he shared some of his amazing life story. A “living history book,” Ben wanted to hear the rest of this Sicilian immigrant’s life story. We met him (invited) at his family’s restaurant, where he gave us a behind the scenes tour as he shared the rest of his family’s restaurant legacy — and a wisdom that comes only with age.

If you stick to the schedule despite surprises that pop up along the way, you might miss the best memories you could ever have. Also, being over-scheduled or too attached to the schedule means you might put it ahead of your family’s enjoyment. Who cares if you planned on dinner at a fancy restaurant (assuming reservations can be canceled) if you’re having so much fun at the museum that you don’t want to leave? It happens! When it does, go with it, because surprises only happen if you’re willing to let them!

C = Consider your kids’ interests. For example, when planning the Great Illinois Road trip, I selected attractions and activities based on my son’s and my shared interests. Ben loves history, art and adventure, so we planned our itinerary around those.

To do this with multiple kids, include each one’s interests along the way. Plan fairly — considering each of their interests as you make choices. Balance the selections, including a few choices for you, to make sure it really is a family vacation!

When you focus on the things they like, you get a glimpse of their heart and encourage their dreams.

What’s your best vacation planning tip?

I’d love to hear from you today! What’s your best travel planning tip for great family vacations? How did you discover it? I love a good story — so please, share!

Pin
Share
Tweet

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from our team.

You have Successfully Subscribed!

Filed Under: Planning, planning, travel tips

Please keep in touch. Our FACEBOOK community is active, and a great place to ask questions. On TWITTER, I share great content from destinations around the world. Follow our adventures on INSTAGRAM — we love to answer questions during trips. And, we’re on PINTEREST saving all sorts of great content from around the web.

Comments

  1. Theresa Ruiz says

    April 10, 2019 at 11:08 am

    When we go on a road trip now. Both my boys drive. But in the past. My youngest came up with this game with Billboard’s. Each person had to do the Alphabet using billboards. But only 1 person could use each billboard. Sometimes it was hard finding letters. You had to use the 1st letter on the billboard for where you were in the Alphabet. It was fun and a thinking Challenge.
    He also came up with “Yellow Car” . You would be looking for a yellow car (hard to find) whoever saw it first would win. You could play with any odd color car. Trucks don’t count. Every once in a while someone will say yellow car and we laugh.

    Reply
    • Laren says

      April 10, 2019 at 12:40 pm

      I love both of these ideas. And yay that your kids can do some of the driving! We play a game called turtle — whenever you see a car with a luggage carrier on the roof. 🙂 Made up games are the best!

      Reply
  2. toyota says

    November 24, 2016 at 7:29 am

    Tremendous issues here. I am very happy
    to see your article. Thanks so much and I am looking ahead to contact you.
    Will you kindly drop me a mail?

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Meet Karen Dawkins

An avid traveler, I enjoy discovering new places: history, culture, and adventure. I love it all! Well, not bugs. I don’t like bugs very much, so I probably won’t visit a bug museum.

Read More

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter

Subscribe

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from our team.

You have Successfully Subscribed!

**This site may contain affiliate links and sponsored posts for which I earn a small commission to help cover the costs of running a blog.**

We participate in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

Copyright © 2023 · News Pro Theme Theme URI: http://my.studiopress.com/themes/news/ Description: A mobile responsive and HTML5 theme built for the Genesis Framework. Author: StudioPress Author URI: http://www.studiopress.com/ Version: 3.0.2 Tags: black, red, white, one-column, two-columns, three-columns, responsive-layout, custom-menu, full-width-template, sticky-post, theme-options, threaded-comments, translation-ready, premise-landing-page Template: genesis Template Version: 2.0.1 License: GPL-2.0+ License URI: http://www.opensource.org/licenses/gpl-license.php on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in